This is personal business
Coaching and partnerships are deeply personal, plus a decent investment of time, energy and funds. And the truth is that not every coach will be right for every person – nor should we expect that. I see it as a good thing to have variety, diversity, and choice in who we work with.
Over the years, I’ve learned that my most powerful coaching partnerships don’t just happen by chance. They’re built on trust, mutual respect, shared values, and a sense of connection that goes beyond the surface. That’s where the magic happens. That’s when the results come – and I’m referring to real, lasting, meaningful results.
If you’ve been wondering whether we might work well together – beyond the functional match – here’s what I know to be true from the clients who’ve had the most success – and thoroughly enjoyed the experience along the way.
This list is about us. Our partnership. How we achieve the best results for you. And making sure it’s right – for both of us.
Click-Factor Galore
You’ll likely get the best from working with me if:
- You’re looking for more than coaching, even if you can’t give it a label. You want a coach, but you also want a trusted partner, critical friend, confidante, sounding board, and advisor – all rolled into one.
- You value honesty, loyalty, respect, integrity, and fairness – and you demonstrate this in how you show up – for our work, as a leader, and day to day.
- You’re willing to come to this authentically, bringing the real and complete you, with full honesty – it’s a safe place to drop the mask.
- You’re prepared to face the tough stuff, whether that be feedback, challenge, or introspection – and see the benefit in doing that with the support of someone independent you can trust.
- You’re craving improvement, whatever that might mean for you – and are willing to do the work to create the clarity and momentum that enables it to happen.
- You like to bring a bit of humour and humanity to the table, even when the work is serious.
Mis-Match In Action
We’re likely not the right fit if:
- You’re looking for someone who’ll passively listen, nod, and agree – whilst that might be cathartic, alone it won’t get you the right results.
- You prefer to keep things surface level, keeping your guard up – that won’t produce the best outcomes for you.
- You want someone to tell you exactly what to do every step of the way – we’ll do the work required to get you your answers, but they will be your answers – I see that as crucial to your journey.
- You’re after a quick fix – whilst there will undoubtedly be quick wins on the way, this work is really about meaningful transformation and a lasting partnership.
- You’re a frequent ‘re-arrange at short-notice’ kind of person, forever struggling to prioritise time for our work and your future – our partnership needs mutual commitment and respect.
Hell Yes or Hell No?
The most powerful responses here are ones of extreme. Count me in as an exciting option or scrub my name from the list.
If you’re sat there thinking “this works for me” and you’re ready to explore how working together, then it’s time to connect and talk. Book your call here.

Tell Me More
I get it, you might just be window shopping for now, exploring and mulling over what you learn. Let me offer you some more resources and insights that could help you.
LinkedIn – Stay Connected
Get to know me more on LinkedIn where I share something most days – it will give you a good sense of me, my work, and even a window into my life beyond the desk. Connect here.
More About Me & My Work
If you haven’t had enough yet, you can discover more about me here, and also my services here.
Helpful Articles
And finally, these other pieces I’ve written might be of help if you are in the market for a coach / trusted advisor.
5 Tips For Choosing A Credible Coach – a broader piece on what to look for, red flags to be aware of, and more.
What To Expect From An Enquiry Call – for when you’re ready to talk.
